I Really Need Advice...

writing a letter would be fine. i had to do the same thing actually. and emailing Seb and telling him what i said you should say is very important. just disappearing without talking for too long can cause a lot of distress, this i also know about. if you can find a way to email him at school or at a friend's house that's what you should do, but if you can't do that make it look like your doing a project for school and you have to be on the computer. open up two tabs and have one of them as your email. have what you want to say planned out in your head so you can type it quickly. that's just an idea you can do the email thing however, but it's a very important step.

you should email Seb once before you confront your dad. you need to tell him how much you love him and that you need to get things cleared with your dad before y'all can go any further and that you may not be able to talk for a while when your trying to talk to your dad. after that you pray, then you talk to your dad. and i will say this will be a multiple day thing. you'll have to have multiple talks and it will take a while for him to accept what's going on. He just is overly protective of his "little girl" and he wants what he thinks is best for you, but you have to let him now that he needs to let you make decisions for yourself at some point. if your still not allowed to talk to him... well let the talks go through first, and then talk to me about it if you still can't talk, cuz that's an entirely different thing and if you do one step wrong in either of these processes things can get hairy

oh, well i really am praying for you and i hope everything works out for you.

Your Welcome. what made you cry? i know what you mean, i had never had to contrast my parents on anything like this when my situation happened, and i was scared beyond all belief. yea i'll be on a lot and if you just comment or send me a private message (if you can do that here) and i'll get it quick.

I know exactly what you mean. I was in the same situation, I met my beautiful girlfriend online. What you should do is email your boyfriend, tell him that you love him and tell him that your going to talk to your dad, tell him that you want nothing but to be with him and that you may be out of contact untill you get things figured out with your dad. First you need to pray and ask God to help your dad understand, then you need to get something that is a connection to your boyfriend, be it a ring, a necklace, or anything really. Now here's the extremely hard part of the entire situation, you need to ask your dad to sit down and talk. You tell him how you feel about your boyfriend. And by that I mean exactly how you feel. And how you being separated from him makes you feel. Don't be afraid to say something because you think he'll get mad at you or that you'll hurt him. Then he'll have his two cents to put in and make sure you say everything. You want to say before he starts talking. after he's done make sure not to loose your composure and get mad or anything becAuse that will destroy the situation. Be calm and reply to whatever he says, make sure he understands how you feel and eventually he will warm to your cituation, off he doesn't well reply and I'll tell you how I delt with that